Recent Editorial in Body & Soul August 17 2008
 

8 Give your sex life a boost

Sex shouldn’t be a luxury, but after years in a long-term relationship it can become a little poverty stricken. “Make sure your intimate time is a priority, not just an activity you resort to when you can squeeze in the time,” says Dr Gabrielle Morrissey, author of Spicy Sex (HarperCollins).

“Intimacy is a necessity in a successful relationship. Sex and intimacy are about pleasure, not necessarily about orgasm. Focus on the giving and receiving of pleasure, rather than the goal of orgasm.”

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